Colman and Raúl Domingo’s Relationship Timeline

Colman Domingo and his husband, Raúl Domingo, have shared a quiet love story that’s spanned nearly two decades—and it's far from the typical Hollywood romance. Their origin story is one of serendipity: a chance passing outside a Walgreens in Berkeley, California in 2005, followed days later by a heartfelt “Missed Connections” post on Craigslist that brought them back together. Since then, the pair have remained devoted to one another through life and career milestones. 

Their recent appearance at the 2025 Met Gala reignited curiosity about the couple's journey. As a co-chair of the prestigious event, Colman stole the show in a sweeping cobalt blue Valentino cape, paying homage to the late André Leon Talley. Raúl stood proudly beside him in a shimmering violet suit, complementing his husband’s look while making a statement of his own. The duo embodied the night’s theme, "Superfine: Tailoring Black Style," reminding the world that they’re not just stylish—they’re significant. Their presence was a celebration of love and partnership, firmly establishing them as one of the industry's most inspiring power couples.

L’OFFICIEL breaks down Colman and Raúl Domingo’s enduring romance from their unforgettable meet-cute to their history-making Met Gala moment.

2005: A Chance Encounter Outside Walgreens

Their story began like a scene from a movie. In 2005, Colman spotted Raúl while walking into a Walgreens in Berkeley, California. They didn’t speak, but the moment lingered for both of them. Who knew you could meet your soulmate in a drugstore parking lot? Colman recalls the first meeting in an interview. 

A Craigslist Connection

A few days later, fate intervened. While browsing Craigslist for a used computer, Colman found himself scrolling through the Missed Connections page—a habit born from his romantic side. That’s when he saw it: a post titled “Saw you outside of Walgreens, Berkeley.” It was Raúl.

The First Date

Just three days after the post, the two met for drinks at a small bar in San Francisco. They spent the night getting to know each other. The chemistry was undeniable—so much so that Colman stayed over. At 4 a.m., he turned to Raúl and said, “I think I love you, and you’re about to change my life forever.”

Talk about a gut feeling. 

A Cross-Country Move & a Proposal

Shortly after meeting, Colman’s acting career brought him to Juneau, Alaska. Raúl followed him there, taking a job as an assistant costume designer. Later that year, after moving to New York together, Raúl proposed in November 2005.

A Surprise Wedding

After nine years together, the couple tied the knot in 2014. They invited 25 friends to their New York home under the guise of a party—only to reveal upon arrival, “Welcome to our wedding.”

Supporting Each Other's Careers 

Since tying the knot in 2014, Colman and Raúl Domingo’s love has only grown stronger. The couple continues to show up for one another in both quiet moments and public milestones, with Raúl frequently appearing by Colman’s side at premieres, galas, and major awards ceremonies. Whether Colman is being celebrated for his commanding performances on screen or taking center stage at fashion’s biggest night, Raúl is often his most loyal plus-one. Their enduring bond has made them one of Hollywood’s most beloved and inspiring pairs.